Saturday, October 25, 2014

FRAN: age 6.5 years old



6.5 year old Fran is newly newly listed with Madison Adoption Associates. Fran is deaf . She has congenital heart defects (CHD), including mild Pulmonary Stenosis and mild Patent Foramen Ovale (PFO). From reading Fran's file, it is clear that this girl will do very well in a forever family! Speaking of files, this is one of the best ones I've seen- it is full of information. Fran likes to play with other children. She also likes to play with dolls, games, and do puzzles. Her favorite foods are apples and eggs and she likes to drink milk. She also loves snacks!
At the age of 6, Fran began going to a special school. At first, she didn't know the rules and was a little naughty. Then she learned the rules.  Now she knows  to look at the person's lips who is speaking and  language of the teachers. When she would go back to the institute from school, she would become more active and would want to play games with the other children. One month after starting school. she began to work hard in school. She could be found helping her teachers to move chairs and other objects. She quickly became a favorite. She quickly learned to follow the teachers and learned some sign language, but still did not know how to write. One term later, after the winter holiday ended and the school re-started, she began to have deep feelings for the school. The first day back at school, she ran around to help her teacher clean the tables, chairs, and floors. She knew the school rules now and was better, though she still had trouble sitting quietly and would occasionally make a bad choice. She is learning more gestures, such as one for her name, the numbers 1-10, and a sign for toilet. She has learned to write many numbers as well as, some words. She is very careful, but still makes some mistakes. She is an active student in school.  She enjoys games and crafts. She won two awards at school- one for “good child" prize, and one for “small pacesetter who helps others" prize.
The awards made her very happy and proud. Her overall performance is excellent. Even when she loses a game, she will smile. She needs some help when it comes to fine motor skills, but she is fond of learning and can imitate quite well. She seems to be very interested in gymnastics and can do many tricks. She is flexible and has talent in dancing.
On Children’s Day in 2013, she moved to a new house. She likes the new house very much and she is happy to point to the pictures on the wall. She has good life habits- she knows to wash hands before a meal and after using the bathroom. She also likes putting on clothes and socks with bright colors. She will put her index finger against her lips and open her mouth. Her roommate made her call mama. Her caretaker will get her hand to touch the caretaker’s vocal cords to make her feel the vibrations when her caretaker is speaking. After practicing a lot, she began to speak a consistent mama mama.
Fran studies in the special school from Monday to Friday and on Saturday and Sunday, she has a rest and activities in the welfare institute. After class each day, she goes back to the welfare institute. She does not needs adults to help her do things she can do on her own, such as: putting down her bag, washing hands, etc. She then helps put the chairs in order to prepare to eat. After the meal, she will help to put the chairs, bowls, and chopsticks in order and cleans the table. She will then go to the activity room to watch TV and play games with other children. Before going to sleep at night, she can get her bed ready, put her pillows in order, and she can also help other children get their beds ready.
Then she will put her hands together to place her hands on the left side of her face to show that she is going to sleep. She will give a sign for good night.
Fran is enthusiastic, outgoing, and fond of learning. All the caretakers in the orphanage love her very much! It is clear that with the love of a forever family and some guidance, this child will make huge gains and will soar!
For more information on Fran, please fill out a free PAP Waiting Child Review form, which can be found here:https://madison.mysamdb.com/SAM/Fm/Fm_Ap_Form_Edt.aspx

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

GREG AGE 11 MONTHS

Meet GREG DOB: November 27, 2013

Came to Harmony House: March 28, 2014 Special Needs: Microtia

Greg is an adorable little cutie. Just four months old when he came to Harmony House, he 
has already captured hearts and is known as The Smiler.
He loves it when you hold him and talk to him, which would seem to mean that he can hear.
His special need, however, is microtia, and the visible parts of both his ears are
deformed.  At such a young age, it is hard to determine hearing ability.
Shriner's in Cincinnati may be abl;e to help with his reconstructive surgeries for his outer ears.
Greg is named for Greg Kim from Virginia, a good friend, partner and parent of a 

child adopted from Harmony House.

ALLEN

Meet ALLEN
Date of Birth: January 20, 2010


Came to Harmony House: May 27, 2014

Special Needs: Deafness

At about 4 ½ years old, Allen came to Harmony House in May, 2014, from Baotou City Welfare Institute in Inner Mongolia. His medical check revealed a healthy little boy who cannot hear. Lily says he is sweet, really smart and understands a great deal in spite of his deafness.

After a separate evaluation, we learned that Allen would be a good candidate for two hearing aids, and we are working to raise funds for that need. Lily is also arranging for him to be taught by the sweet teacher who was so successful in helping another of our Deaf orphans, Brian, over the last couple of years.

Allen is named for our dear friend and partner Allen Kuo from the Chicago area, and he is looking for his Forever Family. You can get more information at http://harmonyoutreach.org/the-children/sponsor-allen/

Monday, October 20, 2014

VICTORIA


This smile totally lights up the room!!


Victoria is a smiley girl who is described as being very empathetic. She comforts her foster mother and other children when they are upset. 
When our staff visited with her during a recent Journey of Hope trip, she found a large stuffed animal and cuddled with it during her visit with us.

Victoria is deaf and has not been receiving schooling. Her caregivers say that she uses body language to communicate her needs and they feel that she is capable of learning sign language. They feel that her mental development is on par with other children her age and she is age appropriate in other aspects of her development.

Her file also noted that she had “brain dysplasia” but her caregivers said that the diagnosis was not confirmed with testing and seemed unaware of the diagnosis. Victoria enjoys playing with other children, but she can also play well by herself. When she plays alone, she enjoys spending time in front of mirrors. Victoria is living in a foster family unit at the orphanage. She is a cute girl with a very happy disposition.
There is a $4000 Promise Child Grant available to families who qualify to help with the costs of this adoption. Please contact WACAP at ckids@wacap.org for more information.

CHESSA Born December 2010

Chessa, born December 2010: repaired cleft lip, unrepaired cleft palate, hearing loss.





Chessa has spent all of her nearly four years living in her orphanage. She received cleft lip surgery in 2012 but currently has not had her palate repaired. She is only able to drink milk and is not given solid food. Due to her palate issues she has suffered repeated ear infections that have left her deaf. She does not speak because she cannot hear.  Her lack of speech could also be because of her open palate. Please don't let that scare you from asking about this precious child.  ASL can help with communication. 

She likes to play alone or stay with the aunts. She is afraid of strangers. She can walk and climb. She does not run or jump. Chessa has good fine motor skills.
Unfortunately for Chessa she has had an IQ exam that did not account for her lack of hearing. She also carries a diagnosis of mental delay. What opportunities would this girl have if she was taught ASL? What would it be like to be trapped in silence?
Chessa does exhibit some institutional behaviors. She likes to spin and shake her head. It would be impossible to know if this is the result of her silent isolation or if she has some autistic behavior. Chessa has round and big eyes, black and bright, has long eyelashes, making her eyes beautiful. She is gentle, smart and obedient, and is a quiet little girl.

Contact Nina Thompson at 
nina.thompson@chiadopt.org  and put CHESSA in the subject line. 

Friday, October 17, 2014

SHAUN Age 7 UPDATE ~ GRANT ADDED

Meet soon to be 7 year old Shaun.
 UPDATE: $4,000 AGENCY GRANT- AGENCY FEES WILL BE $2,500 FOR SHAUN'S ADOPTION.







He is listed with Madison Adoption Associates and is diagnosed with bilateral atresia of external ears (moderate conductive hearing loss), which is very manageable and totally treatable! Diana at Madison met him last year and said he is VERY sweet.Laura Rogers Kirkland met him last year too and said: "OH OH!! I LOVE THIS LITTLE GUY!!! OH MY WHAT A SWEET LOVING LITTLE THING!! ADORABLE!! I mean OH MYYYYYYY.... someone needs to take this guy home tomorrow- he is PRECIOUS!"

From his file: He is not affected by atresia of bilateral auricles. He likes being with and playing with other children. When called loudly, he will turn to you and smile to you happily. This tells me he is likely Hard of Hearing.  Shriner's can help with the microtia of his outer ears.  His outer ears CAN be reconstructed to have a more uniform appearance.

He likes helping his teacher- when the teacher praises him or affirms him, he gets very happy. He is also willing to help other children. He is extroverted, active, and restless.


VIDEOS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GiB_NdFeND8https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHHkHTXTgGc

ARCHER ~ October 2002

Are you an ASL family? Are you willing to LEARN ASL? Oh, how this boy needs you!
Archer, born October 2002, is a charismatic boy, who was not shy when our staff saw him on a trip. He seemed to enjoy having an audience, and performed some cartwheels and breakdance moves!

Caregivers report he loves all sports, but especially basketball. Archer is deaf, and does not speak. He attends a boarding school for the deaf Monday through Friday, and has learned simple sign language. With orphanage caregivers he uses gestures and body language to communicate. They say he cannot read lips, but he was very skilled at sensing what our staff was asking him to do and responding appropriately.
When not at school, Archer lives in a foster family unit in an apartment at the orphanage. A married couple cares for 5-6 children of various ages. His foster mother reports he is a big help with the other children, and voluntarily helps her with cleaning and chores. He is also a carrier of a blood condition, though it is not active. Archer is a happy boy with a great laugh, who would surely blossom in a family of his own.

Archer's file is currently with WACAP. He was part of their Journey of Hope trip this year and there is quite a bit of updated info, pics and video upon request.

There is a $4000 Promise Child Grant available to eligible families to assist with the cost of this adoption.
Please email ckids@wacap.org for more info on handsome Archer!

Video: https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=10152694384488622&set=o.287146781367112&type=2&theater

Thursday, October 16, 2014

Aubrie's Story

Aubrie's Story
Age: 5 years, 5 months

Gender: Female


Country: China


Status: Special Focus
Aubrie's Special Needs

Special Needs:
Developmental Condition, Ear/Hearing Condition


Aubrie is a precious little girl with hearing loss in her right


ear and a language disorder. Her medical file notes that it is unknown whether the hearing loss is congenital or formed later in life.

She cannot speak, but is active, smiley, and can understand 

facial expressions and words of others. 

Aubrie is from one of our orphanage  partnerships and is 

designated as Special Focus 

so a family at any stage is eligible to adopt her."



website - www.awaa.org/wc

email - waitingchildren@awaa.org or info@ awaa.org


Toll Free: 800-429-3369
Phone: 703-356-8447

Welcome Friends,
This Blog is dedicated to the Children of China who have lost their hearing, been born Deaf, or hard of hearing (HoH).

Hearing Loss can happen in many ways... too much loudness, an accident, birth defects which affect the ears,  illness, antibiotics, or genetics.  Deafness can be sudden or progressive.   Deafness can be unilateral or bilateral.  Deafness is NOT contagious.  Deafness IS isolating.

On this blog I will feature children who are Deaf, HoH or deaf... All these children need a home with parents willing to step up and learn American Sign Language to help the children have access to the communication they need.

There are MANY, MANY kids in China who receive NO education, NO sign language, NO way to communicate except through gestures.  When children with disability age out at age 14... I fear for them.  Girls especially are at a disadvantage and are likely to end up sold into the sex trades...  Boys are likely to end up as beggars to subsist. Eking out a living of destitution...  

Spread the word... Silence Beyond Our Control can help a child find their families.  I am NOT an agency. I am simply a VOICE for the Silent ones.